Ya we talked first. No way would I ever let anybody grab me without getting to know you first. I'm Not that kind of guy that let's you touche. If we were in a or any Night Club. And you came up to me. And started rubbing on me. Yes I will let you touch me like that. But if it's just me and you. Come on let me buy you a drink first and get to know each other. Then you can do what ever to me.